My youngest and I went grocery shopping one day. It probably took longer as there was no real list, and shopping was an exercise of pushing the cart from one end of the store to the other, grabbing an item and thinking of the next item.
During this process we were in the dairy section of the store and I was lost in thought when my boy said daddy look. He was pointing towards a young lady who had a slim figure, was wearing a skirt, had long leather boots and was bending over facing away from us. I was speechless, uh, umm, yes good eye son.
It turns out that the reason the young lady was bent over was she was reaching down to clean up an egg that had dropped onto the floor. He was noticing the mess that she was making and nothing else. Later when relating about our shopping trip to my wife she gave me her opinion.
Yes, for the moment the two of us are on different wavelengths but that will change soon enough.